Meet real couples and singles near you. Chat privately, find the parties, and walk in knowing who's there. Discreet, verified, built for the lifestyle.
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Privacy, discretion and safety are first. You're always in control.
Real couples and singles near you, with a match percent and the filters that actually matter in the lifestyle.
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See someone interesting? Spark them. No awkward openers, no pressure, no spam.
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🔥Flame
They spark back, it's a Flame, and a private chat opens. Interest goes both ways before a word is said.
Exclusive SwingTap Community Memberships
Yearly or monthly, cancel any time. Every plan opens all of SwingTap: The Playground, Sparks and Flames, private chat, events, and lounges.
Everything SwingTap has, billed once a year.
Everything SwingTap has, billed monthly. Cancel any time.
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17 upcoming events in 7 states
Swingers parties, club nights and takeovers coming up across the country. Not on SwingTap yet? Create your account now to see who'll be there.
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Discretion is the deal
Optional Add-On Accessories
A card, ring, or bracelet that opens your SwingTap profile on any modern phone. Optional, and it feels like magic.
A comfortable bracelet with a SwingTap NFC chip inside. Tap it against the back of any modern phone and your SwingTap profile opens right on their screen. No app, no typing, no spelling your name out at a loud party. It works exactly like the SwingTap card and ring, just worn on your wrist. Comes in seven colors. Claim it once and it belongs to your profile; update your profile any time and the bracelet always shows the newest version.
$29.99 Get YoursSwingTap runs your whole night: RSVPs, door check-in, group chats, games, and real numbers.
Questions, answered
A private social platform built for the swinger and lifestyle community. One discreet profile, member browsing, private chat, real events with check-in, and group lounges.
Yes. You use a screen name, your phone number is never shown to anyone, and you control who sees your photos. Private galleries need your approval, and you can browse invisibly if you prefer.
Yes. SwingTap is built for real people, not bots, catfish, or fake profiles. Members earn a verified badge through real-world event check-ins and host vouches, and you can filter for verified members only, so you know the people you meet are exactly who they say they are. Real events are part of what keeps it that way.
Two ways, and both work great. Share one account: a couple or throuple can have a single profile with everyone on it, one login, one membership. That is the simplest option and it is what many couples do. Or get your own accounts and link them: each person has their own membership, login, photos, and privacy settings, and you link up as partners so you show up together and people can see you are a pair. Up to six profiles can link. You can buy the extra memberships together at checkout, and we email each partner a link to set their own password. Either way, your relationship status is always your own choice, and you can link or unlink any time.
No. Your profile shares from one link or QR code. Tap gear is optional and makes sharing effortless with one physical tap.
The Annual Membership is $69.69 per year. The Monthly Membership is $6.99 per month. Cancel any time. Tap gear is priced individually above.
